Interesting what you don't know interests you till it does...

This little video clip is but one example. I was aware (as I think most women are) of this arrow in the general quiver of flirty things you can do to catch a guys eye. I hadn't thought of it as a full-on fetish till a couple of different guys wrote after I had in passing alluded to doing this with Derek. This video was one I looked up to explain to hubby how I was teasing Derek a little as "punishment" for noticing him noticing my shoes. This led to a discussion about tattoos. Neither hubby nor I have any or any plans for same but both agree hers looks hot here. We talked about some temporary tattoos as something that might be fun to try.

This led me to think of the many things that I either search out myself now online or hear from others about in response t my blog.

There is a whole category of kink revolving around panties it seems. These panty perverts (and I mean that in the most wholesome and delightful and encouraging way) come in all stripes and flavors it seems. There are those that want me to go sans panties and enjoy the breeze up my skirt. There are actually fans of vintage look from granny panties to the ruffled "rumba butt" . There are fan's of thongs and french cut and low riding all requiring a different level of deforestation or being shaved like a porn star to accommodate all these taste. There are fan's (elvis was one) of the more "natural" look peeking out around the fabric. There are crotchless and even edible ones...(just FYI, they are neither particularly wearable nor edible, just sayin').

Then you take all of those choices and do a little gender-fucking. Guys in panties are interesting. Some do it for a kink. Some like the feel. Some like to be humiliated and find it shaming. Some delight in it. Some like to shave smooth and "be the girl" some like to make it obvious they are fucking with gender and proudly display hair legs. Some wish they could shave but hesitate because of the discussion that would ensue with the wife or the girlfriend (or both!...teehee!). Then you have manly men, who have no such interest ineither crossdressing or panties yet shave like a pornstar and proudly display shapely legs...I wonder how many cyclists crossdress or how many corssdressers swim?

And all of these kinks doesn't even begin to address the varied places readers seem to be coming from. I've got cucks and sissys and cuckolded sissy's (which interestingly aren't all one and the same.) I have wife-hunters and milf-hunters and bulls, (oh my!). I have cuckoldresses and cheating wives. Monogamous pairs. Swingers. What a great cocktail party they would make one and all, no? Hot wives and slut wives and cheating husbands and even the occasional ascetic.

Wasn't there a country song a while back."Who's cheating who, and who's bein' true, and who don't even care anymore?"

Panties...or Not.

Interesting how panties figured into so many posts here. It only became an issue at all because of Jim's perception that husbands that send their wives out to get laid are panty-wearing cuckolds. It didn't dissuade him for me to mention that hubby had once (twice?) YEARS ago.

This led to me slipping a pair onto hubby and being surprised both at his lack of resistance and my visceral reaction to the process and the resulting look. Not what I expected.

This led to very interesting reactions from followers to this blog.

One fan who used to wear panties himself years and years ago, has started wearing them again in sexy tribute of sorts in a way that has taken on a life of its own. He bravely went out and purchased what sound like really cute pairs and has both enjoyed the experience and it sounds like been a bit discomfited by it. Getting out of our comfort zones is hot.

One would like to see me leave them out altogether and go sans panty to work and flash my little shoe fetishist underling. (under-the-desk-ling?) hmmmm. On the one hand I am already WELL over the line vis-a-vis company sexual harassment policy, but on the other hand it is pretty rare that a man would ever complain about such. He seems more than a little accepting of what I had to say, but it doesn't seem right when a male supervisor would get castigated for far less.

Well and good to take the high road, but I find myself checking out of the corner of my eye to see if he is checking me out out of the corner of his...He has been far more subtle since I more or less told him I noticed him noticing me. Its bizzare how him knowing I know and being more discreet is both hotter and frustrating. Derek MUST be still stealing looks, but not seeing him do it is maddening. On the other hand, since he is smarter about it ratcheting up the game a bit does seem do-able and that has me musing at my desk these days.

Where was I? Oh yes, panties.

So my new-found friend and I have had long talks on the subject. He has affirmed that there do seem to be lots of straight or bi men that enjoy panty play. It seems odd to me now in hindsight that it is associated with 'gay' when you think about it. More a submissive act I think. He has me thinking and behaving in dominatrix fantasy and I find I like it. I wonder about feminization, and ordering boys about. Boys in panties. Or out of them. Considering another Ashley-Madison profile expressly tailored for that sort of kink. I wonder though of men, already nervous about cheating, are trusting enough to let go in that sort of direction if they have that sort of urge.

Interestingly, as I was musing about all this I noticed that I had had a visitor to the blog who had reached me by Googling "Sissy Cuckold Blogspot" and I wondered. It is a Bull as they call them looking for prey; a hotwife easily cut out of the herd, left unattended by a sissycuck? Was it a submissive man, longing to hear of or even just suspect that while he is home trying on wifey's panties, she is out getting laid by his betters? Is it a wife wondering how best to deal with the desires of her 'man' who seems more sissy than man to her of late?

Seems odd in a way to be writing things that might appeal to any of the above. My husband isn't the most manly of men, but hardly a sissy until I urge him that way. Feminizing my husband doesn't seem lie something I would have in anyway aimed for in the past nor can really imagine wanting in the future on any permanent basis. Strikes me as one of those risky "be careful what you wish for" sort of things.

So here I am kind of full circle. I started with anger at a husband trying to have me seduced. Evolved to discussions of cuckolding of the stereotypical sissy cuckold type. Advanced the thought in tandem paths that never crossed of sissyfication of husband and actually cuckolding him, but without his direct knowlege. So I asked Jim about what he thought about the whole panty wwearing aspect of this thing now that his guess that hubby would came true..."Would you wear them if Wifey asked?"

"I am sure I would." he said...he chalks it up to the fact that men will do damned near anything to get into a woman's panties. So to speak.

My husband is a cuckold...

I was reading through posts for typos and not really reading for content you know...

It started to feel like work, and was wondering why I write this stuff down.

The only person I hear from about what I write is Jim and he's already heard details before I write them here. In fact a lot of this blog is cut and paste and clean-up sentances from emails back and forth from him.

He helped me put sitemeter on to show wht he has been telling me about how most people that do read don;t comment either because they don't want what they read to trace back to their everyday life blogs, or maybe they don't think their reaction adds much. I do enjoy reading comments on other blogs and can see Jim's point that it is sort of a community and it takes time to get to know people and make stopping by a part of your day..I didn't start it for that so its fine, but I do find that I, myself, do have a little circuit I travel caching up on favorite blogs...


I wanted to add the little box about who I read, then made it too complicated...

You see I read different blogs depending on the mood I am, horny wise, how I'm feeling about hubby etc etc..

I was thinking there are what I think of as cheating wife (well or husband!) blogs. (Jim says Infidelity blogs would sound more elegant...really??? elegant,,,thats a bit of a stretch).

Other one's are what I think of as cuckold blogs...that to me is where the guy knows about it...and of those there are two subtypes..(can you tell I like biology..been too long to remeber phylumm specie...) anyway....


There are I think happy cuckolds, they seem to get off on being married to a slut..(I think that is what my hubby's blog would be like if he had one and well, if he knew)

There are the not unhappy, but like made small by the cuckolding..(well some of them are small!!! giggle) where they cant satisfy and the are made to be embarrased etc etc...(these guys obviously like to blush...i sort of get that for them, but I tend to like these from the woman's point of view...)

Then there are "hotwife" blogs and "swinger blogs" these seem like the girl is sort of well friendly and the dude is cool with it. Kind of more kinky than pervy..hard to describe..



you see my point its hard to know which blog goes in which category...

Oh and new one for me is sissy blogs..this came up when Jim pointed me to some because of me following through o the whole get hubby in the panties project. I thought trannys..(not sure if thats polite...no offense...eek) were gay guys, and like hookers? For straight guys all seemd complicated to me...interesting kind of..

then through the unhappy cuckolds, I read about crossdressing as a humiliation tool...interesting that they seemd mostly straight or sort of bi, but "MAKE ME! (please)"

That interest me..

anyway..im going to try to put peopel where they belong..if I link your blog and you dont like the label let me know, I can change it drop it or whatever!

Wait Damnit. I wrote the title then went in a whol 'nother direction...

I was thinking wait my hubby isnt really a cuckold, maybe my blog should have like cheater or slut or whatever instead of cuck in the title..

Then I realized...above and beyond the sexual things I've done with guys online over the years..(and yes I think that cheating if you have to hide it its cheating...hmm wait I don;t HAVE to hide it he'd get off on it, but since I do, and its all for me, its cheating....) where was I?

oh above that and my fantasies and my little gentle d=sort of humiliation things I mess with hubby sexually, As soon as I pit that boys cock in my mouth in his car, hubby was cuckolded by him..and yes (I DID HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH THAT BOY) No cigars were harmed though in the act thereof.

I kind of want to hint about cuckolding or somehow give him the greenlight for HIM to hint like he used to about sharing me.

But on the other hand, him not knowing is actually the traditional way that a cuckold was viewed I read somewhere...

And him not knowing is kinky hot...especially not knowing the very thing that would get him off to kow..

So I am fucking over the guy I'm with, my husband by depriving him of the sexual fix of knowing, and well all of you by letting you read about it...

If I could be queen for the day, if he could suddenly know all (like read this blog...NEVER GOING TO DO THAT) and have to admit to me that it turned him on, then maybe watch me act it out with someone, maybe he is tied....shudder....